[Self Regulation]
In the moment, I can tell when I'm getting upset or anxious
[Self Regulation]
I'm aware when I'm reactive with a coworker, friend or family member
[Self Regulation]
I have a good understanding of my blindspots as a professional and at home
[Self Regulation]
When I'm frustrated or anxious, I can usually redirect myself back to whatever I need to get done
[Self Regulation]
When I'm upset, I know what I need to do to feel better
1 out of 6 [Self-care and Self-compassion]
I am comfortable expressing my desires and needs
[Self-care and Self-compassion]
It is normal for me to experience a wide array of emotions (including sadness, frustration, anger)
[Self-care and Self-compassion]
I accept my shortcomings and don't beat myself up for them
[Self-care and Self-compassion]
I have a good understanding of my own strengths
[Self-care and Self-compassion]
I am able to question negative beliefs about myself
[Self-care and Self-compassion]
I am in a good place with caring for my body
[Self-care and Self-compassion]
I have a healthy relationship with stimulants, drugs and alcohol
2 out of 6 [Connection with others]
When there's a conflict in a relationship important to me, I put effort into resolving it
[Connection with others]
I take time to understand the needs of the people close to me, and be compassionate with them
[Connection with others]
I intentionally invest energy in the relationships that are meaningful to me
[Connection with others]
I have people that I feel like I can be real with
3 out of 6 [Positivity]
When I think about my future, I have a sense of optimism
[Positivity]
I am a "cup half full" person
[Positivity]
In difficult or negative situations, I am regularly able to find a silver lining
[Positivity]
I go out of my way to see the good in others
4 out of 6 [Perseverance]
I know that if I dedicate myself to a difficult task, I can accomplish it
[Perseverance]
After a difficulty (like a loss, illness, or accident) I bounce back rapidly
[Perseverance]
Instead of dwelling on a mistake, I focus on how I can learn from it
5 out of 6 [Flexibility]
When I have a conflict, I push myself to see the other person's perspective
[Flexibility]
If I don't succeed at something, I'm good about identifying an alternative strategy
[Flexibility]
I'm good about not sweating the small stuff and letting go of things I can't control
[Flexibility]
With consistent effort people can improve in most areas
6 out of 6